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Skills or Common Sense – Do you show it or blow it?

 

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  After working in the Federal sector for over 35 years I can honestly say it’s a thin line between ‘Who you know’ and ‘What you know’. Many articles emphasize that Who you Know gets you further and having been in many situations it was that But I perservered and realized that no matter who I know, I still needed to have the knowledge, skills, and abilities (KSAs) to do the job. Fortunately I always had to apply, interview, and convince a panel that I would be their best choice. Without those KSAs I would not have made it through interviews with highly skilled Managers who could spot a fake.

So why am I making a big deal of this? I just read “The Billion Dollar Woman” by Janelle Harris.  She interviewed Janice Bryant Howroyd, the first black woman to build a billion-dollar business, Act-1 Group, a business solutions enterprise.  Janice elaborated on how she succeeded and made very interesting points.

     First, she attributes her faith in God and the love from a large family as what inspired her.  I can relate to that.  She launched her business in 1978 with only $1,500. That took a lot of faith, self-belief and KSAs.  Janice did not wait for someone to ‘hand it to her’.  I launched my business for less than $350 with no overhead. 

     Second, she marveled at how business owners, employees, contractors or even creative people miss out on investing in people, understanding what the people need; understanding what is behind the ‘ask’, and once that need is identified, one can deliver a service or a product that really grows. Learning from her I deliver a great product that sells itself. Everybody is either doing it or want it.

     Third, Janice stepped up, not back, when the ‘economy was staggering out of a recession’. She felt people wanted to ‘jump in’ when business was good and going well; however her thoughts was that people should put it all out there when there is adversity. It makes you work harder, stronger, and that’s the time businesses grow.

     Fourth, Janice, graduating from North Caroline A&T State University, said her greatest challenge is “unapologetic about the gifts that got her here”. Previously, she shrank from her power.  Now she embraces it and use it to help others.

     Fifth, Janice was uncomfortable with the idea she was smart.  She felt it was crucial to hide her knowledge.  I never thought I would actually read about someone who was uncomfortable with their brains.  It’s sad when people are ignorant enough to judge a person because they are smart. Don’t ever let anyone criticize you or judge you for that reason. Those are people who don’t have sense enough to look at your contribution to others. Take it in for what it really is, jealousy and a negative way to hold you back. After one of Janice’s business presentations, and as she was being escorted to the door someone said “’If more of your people were like you, your whole race would be a lot further ahead.’” Instead of allowing that negativity to affect her, Janice made a commitment that the first $1 million she earned, from that contract would go to scholarships for ‘people like her’. WOW. That’s how you show negative people, don’t get even, be successful. People are watching and waiting for you to either fail or be successful. Make a decision: to fail is easy; to succeed is hard but so rewarding and it helps so many other people. I recently attended a Women’s Conference in Teaneck, New Jersey, where one of the speakers, Lillie Ennis, made a very good point by saying “Ladies, when you crack that glass ceiling, send the elevator back down”. That was huge and an eye opener. There is enough for everyone but don’t forget to reach down and help another. That’s how your blessings multiply. This industry I have been so blessed to be a part of has no glass ceiling and I’m on that elevator.

     I’ve seen what people need, realized it’s already out there as an $8 Trillion dollar industry and simply provide the avenue for everyone to reach it. Simply put, I will be the door that opens for my family and friends. I will create that Generational Wealth. I will lead and develop leaders because now I know, after retiring, this trillion dollar industry has no ‘Glass Ceiling’. And I’m sharing this with everyone I know so you will understand that if I can do it, so can you. There are no education requirements, just a desire to help others.

 

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Bill Gate’s Speech to a High School – This will never get old!

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I recently had the opportunity to teach an English class at a local High School and was amazed at the posters and pictures that was displayed in this classroom.

One clipping really stood out that I actually had the opportunity to recite most of it back to the students as they complained about their assignment for the day.

This is a Speech that I believe will never get old!

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Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talked about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Food for THOUGHT

Rule 1: Life is not fair – get used to it!

Rule 2: The world doesn’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6: If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them (own them)

Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the Rain Forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.


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We truly hope many students who read this will really learn the lesson Mr. Gates tried to convey. Even more, it is hopeful that Parents and Grandparents who read this will remember ‘from whence they came’ and treat their kids accordingly. It is not okay to simply SPOIL THEM and turn them out into the World.

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TRENDY FASHIONS

clothingTrendsWithout being a fashionista it’s obvious that clothing trends change with the times. And then they change back. From $50 t-shirts to custom-made clothes, trends change frequently.   Trends resurfacing that remind us of another era. However, these styles tend to be resurfacing more frequently.

As I watch the students in the middle and high schools they wear the ‘old’ styles because they are trendy and fit them better. Students don’t worry about what others say because most of them are wearing the old styles that don’t cost a lot of money and make them look good and feel comfortable. Young ladies are hooking up scarves and chains with outfits that wouldn’t be seen on most but they look nice. It gives them opportunity to express themselves. Total freedom. When I was growing up all we had was scarves to accent an outfit.

Lets not forget about the shoe trends out there.  People are going back to the old ‘brand name’ shoes simply because the look and fit good.  Now I’m not going to say the latest shoe fashions are not trendy also, but its noticeable that the younger generation has no problem with stepping back to the shoes of the past.

There are others who prefer to stick to the most updated clothing that provide for the larger person with a much wider selection.  There is always a price to pay for what you want and while I don’t knock anyone for wanting to stay up with the fashion, there’s something to say about the simple life and simple clothing.

Please weigh in on what you think.  Leave your comments for others to see.  Give us your feedback about the ‘old trends’ and how you are using them.

 

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